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Action Triggers Every guy, at least once in his life, encountered a situation like this: he had a great time with one particular girl, they talked a lot, had loads of fun, an now they sit near each other doing nothing. The guy wants to kiss her, but he thinks 'what if she rejects me? maybe i shouldn`t try' . It is known that you can not possibly know 100% what to expect from a girl. A thought of rejection will always go through your mind before making your step. I am going to teach you how to avoid the circumstances mentioned at the beginning of this article. How? Very simple. And now, i won`t tell you 'just go for it and kiss her'. I won`t tell you this because she might really reject you, even if you had a great time. This doesn`t mean that you shouldn`t just go for it sometimes, but do it only if you are sure that she will be pleased with it. For more info about knowing for sure if she is interested, read the article about body language. Now, let`s get back to the basics of this tactic. You are in the following situation: next to a girl, you had a great time together. You want to kiss her,but you can`t interpret her body language, and therefore you can`t tell if she will reject you or not. In this case, it`s time for Action Triggers. What are action triggers? In short words, making HER kiss you, so you won`t risk a thing. To provoke a kiss by her, you must 'trigger' her. Say some appropriate words in appropriate situations. Let`s take an example: After a great day together, you and her ar hugging each other in the windy alley. It`s cold outside. In this particular case, a trigger could be saying to her: 'Now that we`re so close to each other, i feel like it`s getting warmer'. This should do the trick 90% of the times, but remember, ONLY if you had a great time together, otherwise she will just think you`re awkward. Before going on a date, try to guess what you will be doing at the end of it, and invent a 'trigger' that will work in that situation. You might even use the exemplified one, if it matches the situation (cold outside, you are close to each other). I hope this will broaden your vision about dating tactics. It`s all about planning, even in dating. Author: Valentin J. |
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